Men do a lot of things to try and
attract women. Some of them
work, and well, some of them
crash and burn. The problem is
that most men really have no idea
what women find attractive about
men. This is what leads them to
shooting in the dark and hoping
for the best.
To really get your attraction
levels soaring you have to know
what women actually find
attractive about men, all the
time, not some time. Take the
guess work out of attraction.
1. Dominance – Women absolute
love dominance in a man. Now
this doesn’t mean you walk
around like the best thing since
sliced bread and chain your
woman to the stove, but it does
mean you are in control. You take
control, you command control
and your control is incredibly
attractive to females.
2. Confidence – Similar to
dominance, confidence will make
women swoon over you. They
adore the alpha male that stands
in front of the line. You can’t be
the little puppy that just falls in
line. Be sure and proud of who
you are, confidence in yourself
and what you do is what will reel
women in like the catch of the
day.
3. Relax – Women really like it
when you seem calm and relaxed.
Now this doesn’t mean you need
to pop a Valium before talking to
a woman but it does mean you
need to take a few deep breaths
and just cool it. When you appear
relaxed women will take notice at
how cool calm and collected you
are.
4. Hygiene – An incredibly
important and yet overlooked
part of attracting women is
hygiene. Yes, appearances are
important, they are what shows
the world how you care for
yourself. Poor hygiene shows that
you don’t respect yourself and
that DOES NOT attract women.
It’s also important because I
don’t know a single time when
two people met eyes across a
crowded room and said “Wow he
looks smart.”
5. Be Fun – When you are the
“life of the party” everyone
INCLUDING women want to be
around you. They see fun people
and automatically assume they
will have fun being around them.
Now being fun can be anything
from being a social butterfly to
always having a good time no
matter where you go. No matter
which suits you BE FUN and
women will respond.
6. Be Positive – Being happy will
really attract great attention. No
one wants to hang out with a
gloomy Gus, so if you’re moping
around you are not going to
attract women, in fact it will be
the antithesis of attraction. You
will push people away. You will
find them turning and walking the
opposite direction rather than
engaging you.
7. Be Generous – Being giving is
a good way to get female
attention and it will be very
positive attention. This doesn’t
mean kill your bank account
trying to be the cool guy that
gives everything anyone asks for,
but it does mean you shouldn’t
shy away from offering drinks,
food or something that will help
them at that moment. Giving will
make you appear to be the care
taker and women love when men
take care of them.
8. Be Chivalrous – As much as
people say “Chivalry is dead” it
doesn’t mean it can’t be revived.
And trust me women will eat it up
like the last box of Chunk Munky
ice cream. Open doors for them,
pull chairs out and be all around
a knight in shining armor.
Chivalry is NOT dead and it will
win women over time and time
again.
9. Be Spontaneous – Spontaneity
shows excitement and women
don’t want to be a part of a
humdrum life. Women love
spontaneous acts of passion and
romance. They love it when they
are surprised and when you keep
things interesting no woman will
be able to resist.
10. Show Commitment – Before
you freak out and have a heart
attack this doesn’t mean you
should get down on one knee and
ask the girl to marry you. It just
means you need to show her you
are capable of commitment and
you don’t shy away from it like
most men. Women love when
men can commit and showing her
you can, will lock in your position
at the top of her list.
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