9 Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life

1. Many African ladies will end up
singles for life because of media
exposure - it is so disheartening
how a lady will glue her eyes on a
mobile phone from morning to
night, only to raise it up to focus
on television to watch another
celebrity entertainment channel.
Tell me, what else will dominate
this lady’s mindset aside how to
live a fake celebrity life being
promoted on television channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike
cooking and home chores just
because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies
showcasing men playing the role
of women in a family, and due to
excessive exposure to modern
media that promotes gender-
equality in a destructive way
that’s aimed at destroying the
unique African family setting that
made our previous African
marriages everlasting and envious
to the westerns. Now, with this
attitude, how do you expect a
African man to desire to marry
when he knows he is only buying
more headache and trouble than
helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most
decent and serious-minded men
off - if you have observed, you
will discover that most men
dislike excessive makeup, and
more don’t even like it at all;
reason they often times
discourage their true loved ones
to do away with it cos it speaks
ill of a lady even though so many
men will applaud and complement
you for looking like an Egyptian
mummy. A slight makeup is okay;
but if you are out for marriage,
try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men,
decent and serious-minded,
except you are still living in your
high school life and not thinking
towards marriage.
4. Stop giving your number out
to every joystick & harry! No man
would want to propose marriage
to a lady whose phone is always
talking and laughing with
unserious calls. You may not be a
playgirl, but he would judge you
as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You don't bring any value into
the life of men you date or are
dating - because your best friend
married without contributing
anything to the man that finally
married her, doesn’t mean it will
work for you that way. Think,
work towards equipping yourself
so that you can be a value and
also add value to his life to
convince him that you are worth
committing to. Adding value to
his life isn’t by giving him money,
or material gifts, nope….good
counsels, being his best friend,
helping him attain his goals in
life, lending him moral, mental
and spiritual support, and by not
just being a liability that only
bring requests and problems to
be solved.
6. Your friends run your life -
how do you expect to find a
husband when you still allow your
clique of friends to be dictating
which man you meet is worthy of
your love and which is not? When
will you wake up and face the fact
that those your best friends even
though they cherish you, wouldn’t
want you to marry before them
or to marry the best man?
7. You give everything out during
dating - As a single lady who has
not been taken to the altar, you
need to reserve some things for
your husband to be, especially
your body, respect it and
preserve it at all cost. In the past,
men rushed to marry to get
certain things or privileges they
had been constantly denied while
being single. Such privileges
include and not limited to:
constant s*x and companionship,
good food and tidied home, etc.
But today, a single man gets even
the best and of course more of
constant s*x, good food and
excellent home-keeping more
than his married counterparts, so
tell me how the hell you want
him to desire to marry you when
you have given him virtually
everything he desires from a wife
while being his girlfriend? And the
most painful part of it all is that
he knows that you are prepared
to cut down on s*x supply,
cooking, home-keeping, etc once
he marries you, so why would he
not want you to remain his
girlfriend for life?
8. You package yourself wrongly -
in your attempt to look sexy,
adorable and maybe appealing to
guys, you have derailed from
appealing to appalling. In fact you
look more whorish than modest;
more distractive than attractive,
and more disgusting than
adorable. Your dressing style
determines who gets attracted to
you most times. If you dress high
school, only high school-thinking
guys will be attracted to you, and
if you dress excessively sexy and
provocative, only randy men will
come to you for urgent
satisfaction of their immediate
s*x urge, so don’t be fooled by
media hyping of certain kinds of
dressing, they are meant for
certain set of ladies you wouldn’t
like to be associated with, be
careful. Remember, not all
clothes that look sexy are good
for a seriously searching for a
soul mate single lady.
9. You lack manners, character,
wisdom and good home
upbringing - definitely, your ‘hot
girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks
will win you so many men; both
the good, and the bad, but your
inner beauty, your character and
manner are the things that will
determine whether any of those
men would stay or run after
accomplishing their evil missions.
In order words, do away with
nagging, being possessive,
challenging with men in negative
ways, the mentality of ‘what a
man can do a woman can do
better’, a lie devil has used to
deceive and destroy so many
ladies today, please do away with
it.